Thursday, October 28, 2010

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mind and you will discover the secrets of body language! V for Vendetta

Thoughts create actions, actions are nothing more than gestures .. and gestures transmit messages. Many times we are so focused on what we are saying that we totally forget how we are saying. The tone of voice we use, the pauses between sentences and one that we, the gestures we make while we're talking or just listening. Anything that does not fall under "what we are saying" (the words we use) is defined as the communication non-verbal language. And perhaps it will surprise you to know that the communication between humans, language is not verbal a much higher than the purely verbal.
The precise percentages are:

  • verbal language (words I use, what I say) 7%
  • language para-verbal (tone, tone of voice, as I say) 38%
  • non-verbal (gestures The terms, management of space around me) 55%.

It 's interesting to think about these percentages. The non-verbal communication accounts for 93%!

Lately on television is much followed the TV series "Lie to Me" with Tim Roth who plays an eccentric student of behavior and language able to find a lie no matter how well hidden thanks to gestures, posture, facial micro-expressions of his "victims", in other words .. due to their non-verbal language.

But is it really? It 'really that "simple" read our stakeholders? We had the solution right before our eyes and we never noticed?

The answer is yes and no. In the sense that: yes, body language is often overlooked but most little known and in many cases is revealing. Not lies. Moods and emotions. As living beings we need to express ourselves, not only in words but also with our body. Although we have developed a concept of happiness and we have no words to express it otherwise ceases to stretch your lips in action model called SMILE.

The non-verbal language, however, is not intended as a powerful lie. If so, we resolved most issues related to justice! No jobs! Dott.Lightman We are investigating!

Admittedly, however, that often, many lies and many behaviors are not true just discovered, not so much thanks to the skill of lying rather than to poor attention span of the listener. We see the classic and best-known act of "scratching" or touching your nose.


Many observers have noted This gesture is often accompanied by the lie. But imagine this scenario: A man do another interview. Initially, his questions are simple and the responses it receives are short and clear. At some point comes the tough question. The person being interviewed after a moment's silence, during which touches or scratches his nose, nobody available with calm and tranquility. The question does not require a false answer. It 's just a complicated issue on which there is need to reflect. So why touching your nose? Simply because switching between applications simple and complicated questions generates a moment of "tension."

Having said that the "always evaluate the gestures and signals" without being categorical, let's see some telltale signs of lying:
  1. Hold the hands in an almost unnatural (cross or cross your arms). Why? Because we know that when we talk about our ever muovono.Quello do not know is how. When the mind is unconsciously trying to prevent our hands to "expose".
  2. Self-hand-face contact: touching your chin, your mouth, nose rubbing, preening an eyebrow, tap the lobe of an ear. Why? Unconsciously, when we lie some of us feel uncomfortable and would like to "hide" what we do and therefore tends to use his hand as gag. On the other hand, if we are lying we must allow the lies to get out of our mouth and then some of us try to block the signal detector. The result is that this contact-abortion is unleashed on other parts of the face.
  3. Move your body more: small postural movements, movements of the body to change position frequently normale.Sono signals that reveal the intention movements of flight strongly inhibited.
  4. shake his hand. While all the hand movements are suppressed, this is the only one that becomes more pronounced. It 's like our hands wanted to relinquish all responsibility for what is being said.

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