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Often, we tend to judge or other situations that present themselves very quickly and sometimes with superficiality.
know how long it takes an average person to form an opinion on someone or something? 4 / 2.
4 seconds to decide whether the new colleague is a nice person, unpleasant, if it is intelligent or not ... 4 seconds to judge our classmate, Baker, a tobacconist.
you think a reasonable time?
Try to stop for 4 seconds. It 'just enough time to reach out and pick up a pen from your desk.
Unfortunately, as quickly as we judge others, the same the world around us is with us.
This does not mean that later you can not change your mind, simply means that, at least in my opinion, the popular opinion "skin" is, in most cases, a court surface and not decisive.
Sooner or later, we all said the fateful words: "I do not like that guy in leather, that is:" I feel that I do not like that person because in 4 seconds, I decided, without any reference, which does not for me. "
And then comes the best: a month later, that same person you did not like that at the beginning, you have an attitude that is "wrong" ... and what shall we say? "Look, that guy I never liked it, I knew, I felt it ..."
A moment to clear months in which that person has behaved in an irreproachable manner!
know why it happens?


Why our mind is constantly trying constantly to what we think.


Try to think: why
day started during a "bad" it seems that bad things only happen?
And why, on the contrary, in a day started very well it seems that everything runs smoothly in spite of minor inconveniences that passed with flying colors which we do not even notice?


One reason lies in the mechanism of mind whereby it "Search" furiously constant references to the fact that we are right.
Why we like to be right ....
And what better way to show it than with the facts?
And that's why, sometimes happen to be saying "I was right when I told them that that was incorrect" is sure, you said just a minute after meeting him but who cares!
What I mean is this could happen, to judge badly the people around us, additives and "label" ... without even having tried to identify with them, to understand, to ask.
An Indian proverb says:
"Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes"


This does not mean we have to justify all the attitudes that hurt us or bother us .. enough to avoid going around with automatic labeling machine always ready to strike!
When I heard for the first time this "theory" began to make a case as I thought, if I were presented with new people.
And I realized that my "inner finger" was always ready to aim and shoot an opinion.
already only paying attention to my thoughts, I improved my relationships and I have learned to avoid unpleasant misunderstanding.


Try it!
And now to play down .... a series of videos that teach not to judge too soon!